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Every issue of this newsletter gives you the exact systems, strategies, and principles I’ve used to generate 8 figures (almost entirely) with email marketing. So you can build your own systems that will carry you through the next algorithm change or recession. This is what actually works.

A few years ago, I interviewed Russell Brunson.

This was around the time he had scaled ClickFunnels aggressively and built three other companies on top of it simultaneously. One of them was something to do with juicing. I never fully understood all of them, which is part of the point.

I told him I had watched him become roughly ten times more successful since I had first discovered his work. I wanted to know how a person does that. How do you build four companies at once, at that scale, without the whole thing collapsing under its own weight.

He said: By relying on people who are much smarter than me.

I heard the answer. I nodded. I moved on to the next question.

I did not understand it at all.

There is a particular kind of advice that works like that. You encounter it, it sounds reasonable, you file it somewhere in the back of your mind, and continue operating exactly as you were before. The words made sense. The meaning had not landed. It takes a certain amount of lived experience before something like that actually clicks into place, and no amount of nodding or note-taking accelerates the process. You cannot think your way to understanding it. You have to go through enough of the thing itself before the words finally mean something.

What I understand now, years later, is that the answer was not humble deflection. It was a precise and literal description of the mechanism. Every person you bring into your orbit who is genuinely better than you at something specific multiplies what you are capable of producing. You are not managing people. You are collecting capabilities you do not personally possess. And the collection compounds over time in ways that solo effort simply cannot.

The alternative is the lone wolf approach. I know a lot of people who have taken it. They limit the number of people they truly rely on, keep the circle small, and prefer to do most things themselves rather than hand anything to someone else. There is a logic to it — you maintain control, you avoid being let down, you never have to explain your thinking to anyone. The logic is not wrong exactly. It is just expensive.

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I struggled with building an email list without understanding traffic, sending visitors directly to affiliate offers, and following misleading advice. 

These were errors thousands had made before me, and it also cost me valuable time and money. 

The moment I stopped trying to reinvent the wheel and started learning from proven successes, everything changed. 

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Now, as I was saying…

Almost without exception, these people plateau. The ceiling tends to land somewhere between a hundred and fifty thousand and three hundred thousand dollars a year. That sounds like real money, and it is real money. The problem is what it costs to earn it, and what it does not leave room for.

I made a quarter of a million dollars in a year once, doing everything myself, and I was miserable. Working around the clock, stressed constantly, unable to switch off because everything depended on me being switched on at all times. My friends at that period would tell you what I was like — they watched it. The income looked fine from the outside. The experience from the inside was a particular kind of exhausting that I could not easily explain to anyone who was not living it, and could not have fully appreciated myself until I was on the other side of it.

These days I make many multiples of that. I work a handful of hours a day. People who have known me across both periods — friends who observed me grind through those years and who see me now — sometimes look at me with an expression I recognize. A kind of confusion, or maybe reluctant inspiration. They notice the difference without entirely understanding what produced it, and they start doing things differently themselves, usually without announcing that they are doing so.

I used to try to explain it to them. To friends, family, acquaintances at parties, anyone who seemed even slightly open to hearing it. I would lay out the logic, describe the principles, make the case for why they could do this too. And it almost never worked. The message would land softly and then dissipate. They would nod — like I had once nodded at Russell's answer — and go back to what they were already doing.

A mentor helped me understand why.

You can only inspire someone by example. (Not by explanation, not by argument, not by repeating the logic until it eventually breaks through their resistance — that approach tends to produce the opposite of inspiration.) The people in your proximity watch what you become. They observe the transformation without necessarily articulating what they are observing. And at some point, if you have become something genuinely different from what you were, they start to feel something shift in themselves. The inspiration arrives without them noticing it arrived. It is more like catching something than being convinced of something.

That understanding made me more comfortable talking about my own results. I used to find it genuinely uncomfortable — it felt like bragging, and bragging repels the exact people you most want to reach. The distinction I eventually arrived at is intent. If you talk about what you have built in order to feel superior, that is bragging. If you talk about it because you know the person across from you needs evidence that the thing is actually achievable — that someone like them has done it — that is something else entirely. That is the example doing its work.

I know that if I could do it, most people reading this can do it too.

Getting there requires accepting one thing first: you cannot do it alone. The lone wolf plateau is real, and it is not a function of intelligence or work ethic or commitment. It is a function of capacity. One person, no matter how capable, has a ceiling. A network of people, each operating at the edge of their own particular genius, does not have the same ceiling.

Russell knew that. He could have explained it differently and at greater length. He chose four words instead. I heard them, nodded, and spent years slowly learning what they meant.

P.S. If you enjoy these ideas, you’ll love the deeper conversations we have on the List Building Lifestyle podcast.

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